Holy Ambition (1 Thessalonians 4:1-12)

Message Listening Guide

The Point: Sanctification is a Spirit-powered journey, not a self-powered struggle.

Q. & A.

How does the historical context of Thessalonica relate to contemporary discussions about sexuality?

The cultural context of Thessalonica in Paul's time was surprisingly similar to modern society in its acceptance of various sexual practices, including prostitution, same-sex encounters, and polyamory. Despite this, Paul's teaching on sexual ethics remained firm, rooted in God's will rather than cultural norms. This demonstrates that the Christian view of sex has consistently differed from prevailing worldly views, both then and now.

What does it mean for a Christian to be "sanctified" according to this passage?

Sanctification, or holiness, means to be set apart for a special, sacred use by God. It involves both abstaining from behaviors that are contrary to God's design and embracing His intended purpose for our lives, including our sexuality. This "set apartness" distinguishes believers from the surrounding world.

What is "sexual immorality" (porneia) as defined in the context of this passage?

The Greek word "porneia," translated as sexual immorality, encompasses any sexual relationship or act that falls outside of God's design for sex, which is within the lifelong commitment of marriage between one man and one woman. This definition is consistent throughout the New Testament.

Why is sexual immorality considered more than just a personal sin in this passage?

Sexual immorality is not solely a private matter because it can lead to the exploitation and objectification of others. For example, the consumption of pornography fuels an industry often associated with abuse and dehumanization. Additionally, sexual sin can damage relationships, betray trust, and hinder one's ability to see others as whole individuals deserving of dignity and respect.

How does the Holy Spirit empower believers in the pursuit of holiness, particularly in the area of sexuality?

The passage emphasizes that the pursuit of holiness is not a matter of willpower alone but a journey empowered by the Holy Spirit. God gives His Spirit to believers to help them live holy lives, providing the strength and guidance needed to overcome temptation and align their lives with His will. This means that sanctification is a process of surrendering to and partnering with the Holy Spirit.

What are some practical steps for a Christian to pursue holiness in their sexual life?

The passage suggests five practical steps:
Identify: Honestly assess whether there is any sexual immorality present in one's life that goes against God's design.
Repent: Turn away from these behaviors or thoughts, seeking God's forgiveness and a desire to live according to His design.
Confess: Share struggles with a trusted Christian for accountability and prayer.
Remove Opportunities: Eliminate situations or triggers that lead to temptation.
Pursue God's Yes: Focus on embracing God's good design for sex and the freedom and purpose that come with living in alignment with it.

What encouragement is offered to those who feel they have failed in the area of sexual purity?

The message offers the encouragement that God's love and grace extend to those who have made mistakes. It highlights Romans 5:8, stating that Christ died for us while we were still sinners. The church is presented as a "repair shop" where individuals can bring their brokenness to God for healing and restoration. Believers are reminded that they are not alone in their struggles and that God's Holy Spirit is present to empower them towards holiness.

Connection Group Conversation Guide

Get-to-Know-You Question: Share your name with the group and answer this: If someone were to offer you any vehicle completely for free, what would you choose—and why?

Review: Last Sunday’s message focused on the call to holiness, particularly in the area of sexuality. Paul’s instructions to the Thessalonian church made it clear that God’s design for sex—one man and one woman in a lifelong covenant—was countercultural both then and now. The sermon emphasized that holiness is about being set apart for God’s purposes. Ultimately, sanctification is not a self-powered struggle but a Spirit-powered journey.

Read: Have someone read 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8 aloud.

Discuss: The sermon used the sewing scissors analogy to show that holiness includes both "yeses" and "nos"—saying no to one thing in order to say yes to something greater. When it comes to sexual purity, Christians have often emphasized the “no.” How might we better highlight God’s greater “yes” when presenting a Christian view of sexuality?

Discuss: The sermon used an illustration about treating a valuable car with care. If you deeply believed you were “bought at a price” (1 Cor. 6:19-20) and set apart for a special purpose, how might that change the way you view your body and what you do with it?

Discuss: Do you know someone who has fought hard to overcome sexual sin and temptation? From what you know of their story, what helped them find victory?

Discuss: The message outlined five steps for pursuing holiness: Identify, Repent, Confess, Remove Opportunities, and Pursue God’s Yes. Which of these stands out as most important for you right now? Why? What would it look like to take action in this area?

Discuss: Paul reminds us that sanctification is a Spirit-powered journey, not a self-powered struggle. In what ways have you tried to fight sin on your own? What would it look like, on a practical level, to depend on the Holy Spirit, in the fight for holiness in the area of sexuality?